Does democracy exists in typical Sri Lankan marriages? If it does, to what extent? I usually see couples with arguments or total obedience from one part. There are exceptions but those are really weird relationships and surely not democratic.
Does anyone have to take things into hand and decide what the other need? It's dictatorship when it comes to politics. But in a marriage, is it the only way to keep things go smoothly?
The dictator part is usually done by the man. Not the women. Unless it's about who has the real dick in the family. Yes it could be the woman.
Somehow it seems, to be able to run a family smoothly and with complements from the fucking society, a dictator is a must in the family.
Otherwise it'll be weird and the democratic will be treated as a weak freak obviously.
So does listening and giving equal choice to your counterpart would cause you problems when it comes to family matters?
Seems democracy in relationships is just an illusion only pathetic lovers have in their dreams.
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